- Words of affirmation
- Quality Time
- Giving Gifts
- Acts of Service
- Touch
From the article, it's really a matter of human touch and thoughtfulness...
1. Words of affirmation - yes, it gives an indication that we are at the right track... such also helps to boost level of confidence, too... which very often, we take for granted it's not necessary, as we believe things are running at the right track already and we assume that the 'doer' is able to deliver because of his/her capacity. In fact, it helps one to carry out his/her work more efficiently, too... just like getting 'ticks' along the way...
2. Quality Time - often, I would find myself rushing through the work and even lunch break, and therefore do not much time with people... acknowledge that this is one area for improvement - and agree that one need to spend time to socialise to build relationships as teams... on the other hand, it goes back, alot, to one's personality and habits... and of course, one's belief, too! Yes, once in a while meeting up for lunch and chat beyond work is good... on the other hand, don't believe in spending too much time just for a meal, or going far for meal... it's really individual's preferences and likes, I think... Perhaps in my structure... such only happens after work... Be it exercising self-discipline or not knowing how to enjoy while at work... very much leaves it to one's perspective, anyway...
3. Giving Gifts - showing appreciation with a meaningful gift... in words or in simple forms like a card or bookmark... This reminded me that, this trend is picking up and people have become more receptive to this... Started practising this when first became the head... some of the peers were not used to it, found it awkward... as years passed, have started this habit of showering dept teachers with little gifts as a gesture to show appreciation on Teachers' Day and End-of-Year closure meeting... These little gifts does not mean anything to them, but I think it's the thought that counts... they know, we bother, we care and we appreciate...
4. Acts of Service - agree with what's in the article... it's the act of being considerate & helpful that touches people.. it gives satisfaction and appreciation, especially in a time of need. That reminded me of the 2 pieces of papaya that the guys got for me when I was so upset that I spent my lunchtime sitting in front of the computer looking blank and fuming...
5. Touch - Yes, it's very natural... but don't practise much nowadays...
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