Saturday, March 17, 2007

Trust...

TRUST... something that we cannot take for granted... however, it's also very often taken for granted...

"Because I trust... that's why... " Yes... this is something that we often say...

Trust... is a very strange element. It is the strength that holds relationships between people strongly and tightly. It is also the most fragile element. Because of trust, miracle happens. Because of trust, confidence grows. However, it takes time for trust to build up.

It is always easy to built 'trust' for the first time... as all starts with a blank slate. It just grows from a clear clean ground. However, once "doubt" starts to set in... it becomes very difficult to remove the ghost image - no matter how much effort is put in. It causes frustration. It leads to "distrust"? It leads to insecurity!

Yes, doubt is 'powerful'... it comes in different forms. It could be a direct query... however, it could also be some constant seem-to-be concern. Why doubt yet on one hand say trust? Confusing, isn't it? Or it's one way not to admit 'doubt' so as not to rock the 'trust' set in earlier? However, does the approach work? It's hypocrite!

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